DLadySophia's Tips, Diary and Issues

DO NOT GET MARRIED Well not UNLESS YOU’VE ASKED YOUR PARTNER THESE QUESTIONS! So today I have good relationship advice for us all before considering marriage, y'all know I’m single and I’ve been doing some reading lately, online, and guess what the cat dragged in!!!! MARRIAGE TIPS oh! Ehen! To be honest I’ve been getting a lot of tips lately regarding this issue of choosing a partner, you know how everyone has a say about how they think you should live your life! Well it’s not their life to live it’s yours, so, don’t let anyone but me tell you how to live your life!!!! I am the only friend, colleague and frenemy, that actually cares about the shitty decisions you make! Trust ME!!!! So if any of you is about to take the plunge make damn sure that you to take the time to ask questions that plumb the inner depths of your partner’s personality and psychology. Give them hell; take them on just another examination scare. Trust me you will have some funny or right answer...

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Being the Most Confident Person in the Room You do not have to search the whole world, books in library or the internet, for an easy hack to building your confidence—some top influential people say you should adjust your posture, give yourself a pep talk every morning, envision your future full of success etc. Well, you can follow these top influences and mimic their habits. Or you can do something far more straightforward, Get experience!!!! Yes that’s right but yet incredibly underrated. I know right? It sounds obvious! But if you really want to become the most confident person in the room, you have to actually become the most informed and prepared: “Nothing beats the confidence-building effects of preparation, and of focusing on the minute-by-minute process that lies entirely within your control,” Just think about that next presentation you have to give at work. Should you just strike a power posture and pray your boss thinks you’re a star? Or, should you also do your re...

Rajab marks the beginning of the spiritual season of every believer ending with the end of the fasting month of Ramadan with the Eid Al-Fitr. These three months (Rajab, Sha'ban and Ramadan) are unmatched in their importance. Praise be to the Almighty and thanks to Him for granting us yet another opportunity to cleanse ourselves of our sins and oversights. The Holy Prophet Muhammad (SAW) has said: "Rajab is a great month of Allah (SWT), unmatched by any other month in the respect and significance (accorded to it); war with the infidels during this month is prohibited; Verily, Rajab is Allah's month, Sha'ban my month and Ramadan the month of my Ummah; whosoever fasts a day in the month of Rajab will be granted the great reward of Ridwan (an angel in heaven); the wrath of Allah (SWT) shall be distanced and a door of the Hell shall be closed." Assalaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu How are you? Insha’Allah, You are very well by ALLA...

CLASS IFI CATION OF FRI ENDS A wise scholar once said, “Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.” There’s another popular saying that “P ower and Money are fruits of Life, but family and friends are roots of life. I was once caught lost in thoughts wondering what kind of friends to take with me as i made the transition from one phase of life to another! I realize that the same question has been bordering others as well, but the thing is that when it comes to friendship, there's bound to be a few bad eggs in the crates which now make it hard for us to think about live long friendship. I am some who has lost a lot of friends due to theses so trust me I KNOW!!! Due to little bad experiences, we tend to lose faith but the truth is that there will always be few friends that are worth to be in your life for a long time. Hence I decided to create a classification of the friends ...

CORRUPTION: MADE IN NI GER IA When the killer plague diseases #Birdflu, #Ebola and #Lassafever were calling, Our Government responded decisively to stop the rampage of the deadly communicable diseases. The Government reacted swiftly then so as not to dent the corporate image of the country in the eyes of the International Community. Maybe, it was due to the fact that the diseases were affecting both the high and mighty in the society. But something more horrifying and image denting has long plagued the country for years without any actions from the Government to tame the monster. Yes you are RIGHT ! ! I’m talking about CORRUPTION ! The biggest, maddest and deadliest communicable disease since time immemorial! Although it has been business as usual in the country, it seems as though nobody sees it as I do, or maybe they do but would rather go along with the popular saying “if you can’t beat them join them” What a pity! The founders of our country were the best, they would ha...