DLadySophia's Tips, Diary and Issues

Do You Want to Be Seen as a Leader? Then get use to these 7 Habits!!! Powerful people don’t become powerful by chance. They aren’t born leaders, they don’t get randomly selected, and they aren’t handed power on a silver platter. Instead, power comes to them as a result of their behaviors, their actions, and their habits. Because of this, it’s possible for anyone to rise to a position of power, whether that’s in the formal political sense or just in the context of your own office—all it takes is the right combination of habits, and the right mentality. If you’re seeking more power or influence in your own life, or you just want to model your lifestyle on the powerful leaders that came before you, take inspiration from these seven habits: 1. They Never Speak Too Much Abraham Lincoln was once quoted as saying that it’s “better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.” Certainly, some of the most powerful people in the world have

ASSALAMUALAIKUM!!!!!!!!! This information is worth gold!! Sujoodush Shukr is like a treasure in this world and al ākhira. Most of us miss these benefits and we don't know how much it's worth. When we do Sajdatul Shukr (prostration of Appreciation), Allah opens the hijaab between us and the Angels. Allah says to the Angels, “look at my slave, he did his fardh and obeyed My teachings and he did Sujuud to thank Me for what I've blessed him with” “Oh My Angels what should he get as reward” The Angels will reply, “Ya Rabana give him Your mercy”. Then Allah will ask again, “and what else?” The Angels will reply, “Ya Rabbana give him Your heaven”. Then Allah will ask again, “and what else?” The Angels will reply, “Ya Rabana make his worries end”. Then Allah Subhanahu WaTaala will ask “what else?” Every time, Allah asks what else, the Angels will reply, something good. Lastly the Angels will reply, “Ya Rabana we have no knowledge”. Then Allah will

I recently turned 25 and ever since I'm into making list of 25 things to do.   Here is a list of 25 things to do, which brings you closer to Allah! Nice right?   Well here we go Number 1. Start off each day with 'adhkaar al-istiyqaadh' (waking up Supplications), thanking Allah for waking up in good shape. Number 2.   Always Put Allah first in your life. Number 3.   Broaden your horizons - learn 5 new verses from the Quran every day, travel to pray in the masjid, to brighten your day, take up a booklet having supplications and read them. Number 4.   Pray Salaat Al-dhuhaa (after sunrise). Number 5.   If someone says something mean to you, just shrug it off and dismiss it in a friendly, laid back manner, and pray that Allah shall forgive them. Number 6.   When you get angry, remember Allah, and how short and worthless life is to waste being angry. Number 7.   Remember that you can never have too many friends

 MILK: The Prophet sallalhu alaihi wasallam said that milk wipes away heat from the heart just as the finger wipes away sweat from the brow. It strengthens the back, increases the brain, augments intelligence, renews vision and drives away forgetfulness.  HONEY: Considered to be the best remedy for diarrhoea when mixed in hot water. It is the food of foods, drink of drinks and drug of drugs. It is used for creating appetite, strengthening the stomach, eliminating phlegm as meat preservative, hair conditioner, eye salve and mouthwash. It is extremely beneficial in the morning in warm water and is also a Sunnah.  OLIVE OIL: Excellent treatment for skin and hair, delay old age, treats inflammation of the stomach. MUSHROOM: The Prophet sallalhu alaihi wasallam said that mushroom is a good cure for the eyes; it also serves as a form of birth control and arrests paralysis. GRAPES: The Prophet sallalhu alaihi wasallam was very fond of grapes; it purifies the blood, provides vigo

Days a go i thought i had a difficult boss, i wouldn't call him a bad boss or a meanie but a difficult one, because i believed he had a legitimate beef with me. You know, the kind of beef you have with a coworker and always find mistakes in what they do? Well, i thought i was getting signs from how he interacts with me, how he responds to my salutations when he comes into work, how he doesn't give me similar coaching or attention as he does the other two staffs in my department. I felt like i could barely get his attention and when i ever i do get his attention he quickly ends the conversation. I strongly believed the recent office stealing made matters even worse, as he had a closed door meeting without me. I started having my usual paranoia, and mind juggling wondering what i should improve to get his attention and make him see i am good at my job, soon after i kept trying so hard i concluded that my boss was being difficult!! I started to hate him, because i fe

There was an issue in my office 2 weeks ago on some office stealing, and although the matter seems to have ended as they blamed an innocent man, i am quite certain that they've got it all wrong, i feel like they are blaming an innocent man. I was convinced that, the person who kept the money took it, and played on my innocence claiming he didn't take it. But, i didn't want to believe it because since i joined this company he is one of the people i trusted and was quite welcoming, also it isn't right to suspect people, as understood from my religious beliefs, so now I'm kind of in a bind, because here's what happened :- Only Me and him knew the money was there, and It wasn't me so?........... There has never been a case of stealing in the office before........ We have never kept money in my laptop bag before........ There was no sign of force entry or clumsiness, so the taker new exactly where to locate the cash........ Also the taker didn't take

I'm so bored!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I miss this guy so much, i started downloading so many super hero series to enjoy watching a villain killing and antagonizing the heroes. So far i have watched #Supernatural, #Smallville, #Super Girl, #Phineas and Ferb, #The Flash, #Gotham and #Arrow to name a few up to their most current episodes, and there was no bad guy i enjoyed watching as much as i enjoy watching Klaus . Sadly, really sadly, none of the villains are master planners like Klaus . They were all easily and less tactically defeated.  It is really sad. I miss Klaus so much, Why OH why did they move it to next year? and to top that there even went further to reduce the episodes. Last year i had similar experience, but then i went on a romantic heroes marathon, as i was left on a cliff hanger on Klamille, but now Camille is dead!!!  Which is why, this time i moved on to the Villains, which it seems isn't working well for me. So now looking at the heroes in all the